December 31, 2008

Just about keeping the belief!


It’s just not losing your cool
...and keeping the belief!


The moment you think of giving up something, just think, “why did I held it for so long.” The line really helps me recede the frustration. Hailing from a city like Mumbai where people are hot blooded, the tempers always on the higher side, reactions coming in spontaneity, the traits are well endowed in me as well. I’m often perceived as someone who loses his cool easily, gets frustrated in seconds. On giving this behavior a serious thought, it comes from the fear of failure or rather precisely, fears of not keeping your claims.
The reason this anger shows is the lack of faith in what you’re doing, it can be lack of efforts, lack of the D’s in towards your work (determination, dedication, devotion). We’ve observed so many people who get angry very fast are the ones who also speak a lot on a small success. Cementing a few bricks will make them speak boast of building the china wall. They keep on assuring people of their success at such times. In fact they want people to assure them, it will happen.
Over the years, all those who’ve been successful by leaps than everyone, you observe a calmness on their face. Even when they speak, they’re so less animated and they speak as if every word by them is well thought out. According to me, it’s the belief in your work that can give you this calm and composed behavior. It’s all about not losing your cool and having patience and saying to your own self, “It will happen.” And then when people question your failure, your calm and cool face with belief imbibed within you will assure your critics:
“Despite all this, I think IT WILL HAPPEN TO THIS MAN.”

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